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May 2013

A FATHER'S DAY WISH FROM HIS CHILDREN...LIVING OUTSIDE THE HOME

DADDY PLEASE........
 
1. Authenticate and own me publically.
2. Always tell me the truth.
3. Include me in family & private events. Call me regularly-(that means
    you love me).
3. Insist that I respect my mother.
4. Mentor me to be treated as a lady or to act as a gentlemen.
5. Take me to church with your family and sometime everyone
    could visit my church.
6. Be my leader: Provide for me and teach me discipline and the value
    of work.
7. YOU, Never disrespect my mama!
8. Please don't sleep over in our house -  if you are married!
9.  Treat me and all of my siblings fairly, regardless of your relationship
     with their mother(s).
10. Help me to respect and love my Daddy.
 
Read more:  "Unresolved, The Blessings of A Resolved Lifestyle"  www.resolved-2010.com

A FATHER'S DAY WISH FROM HIS CHILDREN... IN THE HOME

DADDY PLEASE........
 
1. Show your friends that you love spending time with me.
2. Show me that you love and respect your wife / my mom.
3. Insist that I respect my mother.
4. Mentor me to be treated as a lady or to act as a gentlemen.
5. Let me remember seeing you reading your bible at home and having
    personal prayers.
6. Be the leader in our home.
7. Tell me the truth!
8. Don't sleep around, or do drugs - it’s not okay!
9. You authenticate and make me know all of  my siblings.
10. Help me respect the "Daddy" I love.
 
Read more in  "Unresolved, The Blessings of A Resolved Lifestyle."  www.resolved-2010.com

Children Love To Say...."I'M GONNA TELL MY DADDY!"

FATHERS - DO YOU KNOW HOW IMPORTANT YOUR NAME IS?
 
Many, many years ago my mother shared with me that a young lady's father had deceased.  Later in this young lady's life, as a teenager, an older man was speaking disrepectfully to her.   She looked at the man and said: "I'm gonna tell my Daddy!"  ... That man immediately left her alone and walked away!
 
Isn't it amazing how powerful a Father's NAME is!
 FATHERS, YOU ARE an essential part of the family!
 
 

7 - EXTERNAL STESS FACTORS THAT CONTRIBUTES TO THE BREAKDOWN OF FAMILIES

7 - EXTERNAL STRESS FACTORS THAT CONTRIBUTES TO FAMILY BREAKDOWNS.
 
1.  Additions of Family Members (any type)
2.  Loss of a Family Member
3.  Ambiguous Loss (prison, missing in action, missing)
4.  Sudden Change (income, social status)
5.  On Going Family Conflict
6.  Caring for a Dependent or Disabled Family Member, Parent or Adult
     Sibling
7.  Demoralizing Events (abortion, unemployed, poverty, criminal
     prosecution, racist)
 
Don't walk in denial; get the help needed to move forward: 
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EXCERPTS: Why Do Adults Disc Their PROBLEMS on Children?

Insecurities and distrust are rampant in relationships.  It is not uncommon to lose trust in someone, but relaying that information to someone else could have a devastating effect upon the person whom you choose to report  and discuss that information.  Sometime adults confide in their minor children.  Children do not process information in the same manner as adults. As a consequence, minor children  could fall into a false sense of loyalty and lose their emotional balance in the process. 
 
We can make it so much easier for children by being their adult caregiver / parent, and by seeking other trustworthy Christian adults for personal advice.  It is very simple:  Children have enough to manage as it is, and are thus not able to handle the adversities of adults.
Our ability to relate to and protect children will make a world of differences in their natural and spiritual growth and their abilitiy to handle their later adult struggles.
 
Excerpts from "Unresolved, The Blessings of A Resolved Lifestyle."
www.resolved-2010.com   ISBN#   978-1-58909-745-2
 
 
 

“Intentional Denial” or “Voluntary Dismissal” of Under Age Abusers ?

There seems to be a  madness on the rise.  It is called “Intentional Denial” or “Voluntary Dismissal” of under age abusers due to social status, popularity, and economics!   Much attention has been drawn to “school bullying.”   It appears to be a joke when, in many cases, parents encourage and allows home bullying among siblings.  Furthermore, some of the same parents are requesting emergency protection from public safety.  When this bullying behavior is carried into a disciplined, law abiding classroom – learning is hindered and the safety of everyone becomes at risk.  When children live in a society that does not provide fearful and undesirable alternatives for abusing not only their peers, but now adult -   URGENT ACTIONS MUST BE PUT INTO  PLACE.  SCHOOLS  have now become the target environment for adult abuse.   According to the developmental stages of children, a child’s age is determined by both chronological and, maturational;   meaning the child’s actual number age vs. the child’s maturation level.  A child’s actual age and appearance could be that of a fifteen year old, but emotionally, socially, or intellectually – has the actions and judgment of a nine year old. 
 
 
Why is it that the same crime can be administered between birthdays and the chronological eighteen year old child – now an adult, endures a harsh adult punishment because of his/her age?    In many ways, this eighteen year old is fearful and unprepared for life’s consequences because the adults, in their lives, were negligent in providing – age appropriate accountability.
 
Society gives children mainly two options for successful growth & development:  Parenting and Law Enforcement.   Social laws have nothing to do with emotional attachment.   Public safety reminds us:  “Do the Crime, Do the time!   We have wonderful, wonderful boys and girls who are in need of guidance.  Imagine the effect of mandatory (PAC) parental and child “Team Intervention /Back on Track” type of social law classes that includes an elevated curriculum for repeaters.   
 
It takes a whole village to raise a child.   When children disregard the respect to adults and are made to feel confident in their direct approach of such, intervention has become urgent!   The characteristics of adults are very different from those of children.  The law is designed to protect both.   Let’s become PRO-ACTIVE   as parents so we can guide our children with loving arms.     More issues are discussed in my new book:
 
Author, Wanda J.R. Prowell
SCHOOL READINESS for PARENTS & CHILDREN, K-12   http://www.resolved-2010.com   
 

GRADUATION! It's Time To Make A Difference.....

Remember to always thank your parents, teachers, and your high school counselors!
 
I was inspired initially by my parents and many supporting adult leaders. As life became more challenging, my high school counselor became my mentor for making hard decisions. Of all the students within my high school, I always believed that God sent her to my high school, … just for me!     Life is filled with many challenges.  Success is granted to those who refuse to give up.  Read many inspirational, real life stories in "Unresolved, The Blessings of A Resolved Lifestyle"  and "School Readiness for Parents & Children, K-12 "     @ www.resolved-2010.com  
 
 
Tell us who inspired you and how your are inspiring others:
       

Youth Accountability?

Youth accountability and response to the Word of God as it relates to a personal relationship with him. Sure, we are living in a world of wonderful technology and although it offers advancement for tasks, it lacks the ability to foster a divine encounter with a Holy God. My experiences in human development support that certain experiences must be transferred from one human to another. These daily practiced conversations and experiences must be observed daily during each developmental stage of a child. When daily truths are spoken by the adult, and observed by the child, it leaves a long-lasting, impressionable impact. I am confident that throughout the ages "no new created item or device" will ever replace the genius impact of parents on the next generation.

Prayer is nothing more than having an honest conversation with our heavenly father.  Children find it difficult to do this when they have not experienced warm, honest conversations with their own parents.  Most children are reluctant and/or fear being honest with their parents. This is a problem and it is one that parents should correct. Our country is being rampant by liars and it has nothing to do with educational level.  Majority of  today’s children, into adulthood, cannot comprehend the reality of a “Real God”; who balance rewards and consequences for which an apology does not erase.”
 
What is your take away from this blog?
 
 
 
 

Does Society make excuses for "Not Living the Word of God ?"

 
Does Society make excuses for "Not Living the Word of God" as commanded in scripture?   Each day presents new circumstances and individuals. Our daily challenge is to respond respectfully according to scripture, knowing that an awesome God is watching.  Above all - give truthful accountability to your household. We are humans. Should we continue in denial suggesting to our children that we are without answers?

There is so much anger in the world today.  As a high school educator, I asked myself, “How is it that students are fighting first thing in the morning?”  Most of them are still waking up!  It had nothing to do with school. They were angry when they left home.  Many titles are dominating today's pulpit;  yet two remain as cotton balls.

QUESTION?  Does your church, youth class & home display the 10 Commandments?

The breakdown of family destroys the earth! Bible at a glance: THE 10 COMMANDMENTS! The fact is not when prayer was taken out of the schools nor the10 commandments taken down from public buildings, it was when churches & parents took them out of their homes and failed to teach them to their children.  Many felt that if they didn't showcase it, taught it, it would excuse them from living it and they would escape the embarrassment or shame from their children and others for not living it. Children are forgiving but they recent and hate hypocrisy! The adult child will carry these emotions onto their families.

When children experience foundational Godly relationships at home, THEY ARE EAGER TO SHARE!”
 
What is your opinion about this blog?  Read more in my book:  Unresolved, The Blessings of A Resolved Lifestyle.  PURCHASE @ www.resolved-2010.com
 

RELATING TO PARENTS FROM ALL WALKS OF LIFE - OUR KIDS!

Author's Written Response:  STILL TAKES A WHOLE VILLAGE  (Commercial Dispatch)
 
In my years of experience working in community action agencies, government funded skill programs, preschool entrepreneur, and long term high school educator; I have found that most parents are very caring about the educational, physical, and emotional needs of their children. The challenge becomes fostering a total environment (not just a class or workshop) of inclusion for parents of multiple economical, educational, cultural status. The academic atmosphere must reflect basic inclusion for parents:  Example:  (1) Most written and verbal communication may need to be modified to a lower grade level simply so the mass of parents will comprehend.  (2) Staff displaying genuine  character (social skills to parents of multiple mental, social, and physical handicaps).   Like students, parents must be recognized, held accountable by individuals /staff whom they admire, RESPECT, and love.  The same is true for the angry student who is upset about issues that has nothing to do with school. Address or solve the problem, then the student is ready to learn. Life is no bed of roses, but operating through a MASK misappropriates the solution. There isn't a quick fix for present day- educational concerns; yet, there remains a certainty, “WE NEED THE PARENTS NOW, and WE NEED TO build healthy relationships with students for the future success of our families and communities.”
 
It’s simple:  People respect sound, honest, consistent, FAIR character.  Discipline and correction must be shared and administered in “sincere love.”  AGAIN, this book was written with all of the above information in mind.  Fact are broken down and shared in a friendly styled voice and written in ‘SIMPLE” easy to relate – language;   Parent enjoy reading :  SCHOOL READINESS for PARENTS & CHILDREN, K-12  and appreciate the information shared.   
 
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Print Copy   ISBN#   978-0-615-54346-8
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